Saturday, July 11, 2009
WEEK 3 QUESTION 6
WEEK 3 QUESTION 2
Week 3, Question 3
In the poem “Commitments” by Essex Hemphill the statements “I will always be there”, and “I am the invisible son” are reconciled in knowing some background on Essex Hemphill’s sexuality. From reading the introduction the reader is given the knowledge that Essex is a homosexual black man. Knowing this gives the reader a lot of insight into his dilemmas at family gatherings. Family gatherings usually include couples and their children. Single people often feel ostracized at such functions, and homosexual single people all the more because the lifestyles of both these demographics is not fitting a square peg into a round hole. Essex describes several holiday settings that fit the stereotypical family traditions “set for Thanksgiving/a turkey steaming the lens” l 22-23 (p.553). Yet he describes his arms as empty in all of the family photos. Empty of a child that would make him fit into the heterosexual world and empty of a lover that would make him fit into the homosexual world. He attends these family functions but he is invisible to his family because they do not know the true him.
Week 3, Question 3
In the poem “A Chinese Banquet”, by Kitty Tsui the author uses image driven details in reference to the guests attire, professions and cultural heritage to establish the formality of her family. She starts the story with “It was not a very formal affair…”(554), however she then goes into detail about the young women wearing corsages except for herself. So from the beginning of the poem you see that she does not conform to her cultural or family norms. During the course of the rest of the poem the author makes reference to the expensive vehicles and vacations her family is speaking of, all the while she is enthralled with thoughts of her lover as expressed in the line “dreaming of the cloudscape in your eyes”.
As the poem progresses and the evening gets more intimate the author speaks of a time when she attempts to have an open conversation with her mother. “mother I’m gay and so happy with her” (555). This portion of the poem is less formal and more honest. The mother rejects this attempt at honesty and dismisses her daughter. The conversations in the room then digress to more guarded things such as the types of vehicles being driven by different people at the party.
Friday, July 10, 2009
Jessica Silva – Week 3, Question 4
The imagery in Kitty Tsui’s “A Chinese Banquet” illustrates the level of importance that her family places on projecting an image of wealth and success: working as a dentist, driving a Mercedes, owning a home, vacationing in Beijing, and marrying early. I feel that these images are vivid because the fact that Tsui does not fit into this mold weighs heavily on her and it is something that she cannot forget – something that runs through her mind often. However, there is little to no imagery used in the second half of the poem – a technique used to illustrate the fact that she feels a distance growing between herself and her family, especially her mother, whom she desperately wants to “bridge the boundaries” with. While the second half of the poem is virtually void of imagery when she speaks of her family, in the last stanza, when speaking about her partner, she presents us with imagery of “dragons and water” as well as the “wide open sky,” perhaps to convey the idea that as she distances herself from her family and their lack of acceptance, she and her partner become all the family that one-another need.
Week Three, Discussion Question # 4
In Tsui’s, “A Chinese Banquet,” her relatives are measured by how much success
they achieve and that success is shown through materialistic forms. One of her relatives is a dentist who drives a Mercedes-Benz. The rest of her family is concerned with buying a house or what vacation they will go on next. There achievements only come through material things while Tsui sees things differently. She does not want to be a computer programmer because it is not her passion. All of these details show the way people perceive what it is to be successful (in monetary terms) and how some cultures put all the emphasize on that and nothing else.